For starters, I honestly was not anticipating June 😐😓
With April came along Mother’s Day and that first birthday.
Whew! I won’t even lie, it was beyond tough getting through those last two months. As a result, I felt more inclined to just disappear; not write or even record for a bit. Forget about me blogging at the very end of May.
Yet, the hope remained for those woes to subside and eventually get it together in due time.
I was so wrong in believing that hype. SMH. And so as a result, I turned this first blog post for June as a little reminder/a few tips to all those who are experiencing the same feelings.
1. Never ever feel afraid of utilizing the resources that are available to you. Whether it be counseling or therapy, whatever healthy medium, know that it’s for you.
2. If need be, take the necessary time to just be. All that means is don’t feel as if you have to rush nor don’t allow anyone to rush your process.
3. Remember that once you utilize those resources, you have granted yourself the permission to truly be aware of every wave of emotion and it’s okay.
4. Give yourself time. I can’ t stress that enough. There have been moments where I felt that if I didn’t complete something, I was not doing enough. Do know that you have to take time to pour into you. The moment you feel as if you aren’t doing enough, you’ll feel the urge to continue to pour into other things/other people. Never ever forget you throughout all of this. Baby Girl/Baby Boy, you matter too.
*Ultimately, do what works for you in the healthiest way possible.*
Before I end this blog post, I just want to say look how far we have gotten and all that we’ve accomplished!
We’ve come a long way to get to this point so let’s relish in these moments/highlights and hold on to that!
Above all else, thank you for checking out today’s blog post. It means the world to me and then some in knowing that you guys hold it down and keep coming back😩🙌🏾
With peace and so much love,