Welcome back to Takemetotheheights.com! Thank you for taking the time in checking out tonight’s blog post!
Let’s jump right into it. We have entered our last lap of summer (😢). Although I can do without the heatwave we’ve experienced these last few days,
I will say this is the most motivated I felt in such a long time (thank you God!) (I’ll get into that more in another post🙏🏾🧿)
I do however, want to talk about those moments of feeling flustered. I caught myself feeling that way after work (glad I was able to record that) Upon realizing that, I was reminded to stay present, and to essentially take it a day at a time. We often times get wrapped up in what we should’ve, could’ve, would’ve done, and what our peers are accomplishing; all the while not celebrating all that we are. It’s never a race to the finish line. It’s ultimately about what you are doing to achieve your desired goals, how well you are taking care of yourself while achieving your aspirations and knowing that your journeys are essentially YOUR JOURNEYS (and that’s on Mary Had a Little Lamb).
Aside from that, last month was my reminder to keep pushing through (but remembering to give myself the necessary breaks) Giving myself the leg room to step outside of my comfort zone (through my creative endeavors🙏🏾🧿) and staying committed to my craft, has allowed me to grow in ways I never thought possible. Being able to tap into myself creatively has truly been an eye opening experience. (Y’all I can’t wait to delve a little deeper into this 🙏🏾🧿)
But before I close off tonight’s blog post, let me be your reminder to keep betting on yourself. Be your biggest cheerleader. Know that you are doing all that you can and take all of the (necessary) risks you need to. The greatest thing we can do for ourselves is to step into unfamiliar territories. Doing so, will foster our growth and push us to reach our full potential. So take that plunge and know that what’s meant for you is meant for you.
Above all else, I thank you for taking the necessary time in reading today’s post. It means the world to me and then some. Please be sure to read all of our most recent blog posts. Follow us on our respective social media pages and we’ll catch you in the next one!
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Y’all I’ve been feeling extremely motivated and inspired! We thank God!
But coming into this particular blog post, I want to talk about a time where I didn’t feel that way.I remember the many times I wanted to pull the plug on this site 😩 During those moments I wasn’t pouring into myself or my craft and it showed in how I spoke about myself and my then plans.
I realized now, a lot of my circumstances played a huge role in how I operated in my day to day life. That moment of losing a job, sacrificing so much of my time at my then position, to then coping through it all was overwhelming for me.
Despite that, I’ve always had this fire within myself to keep going. It didn’t matter what was going on, or what I lost back then. It then became what I was gaining, what I was making room for and all the beauty that would essentially come into my life.
I honestly thank God for those pitfalls. Those lessons and hardships turned into blessings. Now don’t get me wrong I had my moments where I questioned otherwise but my faith was and still is unshakeable which I am wholeheartedly thankful for.
I guess this blog post is a reminder to anyone who’s feeling low or defeated. For anyone questioning their current circumstances I’m here to tell you to keep going. We often times get so wrapped up in our pitfalls that we lose sight on the blessings that are on the other side. I am a firm believer of things happening for a reason. Please don’t allow that termination, breakup or any hardship determine your next step or lack their of.
You deserve all that you are striving for and manifesting. Just please remember to give yourself grace through it all.
Before I end this particular blog post, here’s a quote that has stayed with me since middle school: “Limits are only limits if you choose to be bound by them.” In other words, don’t allow those challenges to get you down. Keep moving forward and shake the room while you still can.
As always, if you made it all the way to the end of this post, I thank you for taking the time in reading this post. It means the world to me and then some. If you haven’t done so already, be sure to check out our other blog posts, and we’ll catch you in the next one!
After taking off some much needed time, it feels so good to say hey y’all. I’ve missed writing soooooooooooo much. I’ll eventually get into why it’s taken me so long to tap back in. For starters, I can’t believe it’s already July.
I will say taking the necessary time to regroup and recalibrate, really allowed me to zero in on my needs for a change. I applied the ultimate pressure on all that I desired and I can proudly say I am beginning to see all that I’ve manifested thus far come to fruition (we thank God!)
With this particular new phase of my life, I humbly believe all that I desire is within my reach. I just have to continue to put in the groundwork and allow my work to do all the talking for a change.
Aside from that, I truly hope everyone has been doing well. I hope you have been taking the necessary steps to reach your goal(s) and taking care of yourselves throughout it all. I know attaining dreams/desires is not for the faint of heart. Yet I do know it’s attainable once you’ve fully stepped into all of who you are and not be afraid of harnessing that power you possess.
So go after that new position you’ve been eyeing, start that new business you’ve been putting off ; go ask out your crush (I know you’ve been thinking about it) I am here to tell you grab ahold of all the opportunities life presents you with. Go in with the mentality that it’s already yours. The world is your oyster and it’s yours for the taking. There’s no time to be shy now!
Before I close of on tonight’s post, I do want to thank those who have taken the time in reading this piece as well as any other blog post here on Takemetotheheights.com. It truly means the world to me! Being able to be back in this space to write again and share with you has truly been the best feeling in the world for me!
Thank you for sticking around with me here at Takemetotheheights.com and I’ll catch you in the next post!
I am without a doubt still moved by Pyer Moss’s Couture show from this past Saturday. Being the first African American to showcase at Paris Haute Couture Week, Kerby Jean-Raymond (founder and creative director of Pyer Moss) held his show outside the historic Villa Lewaro Mansion. Jean-Raymond’s highly anticipated show was filled with models dressed in pieces that reminded us of objects made by prominent Black inventors. The estate alone where Pyer Moss designer held his show once belonged to Madame CJ Walker. Walker became the first Black female millionaire all by building a beauty empire from a hair care product for Black women.
The show kicked off with Elaine Brown, former Black Panther Party chairwoman. She stressed the significance of Blackness and the undeniable power we have. The show also featured Brooklyn rapper, 22Gz.
Down below, you’ll find a few pictures of Jean-Raymond’s couture pieces referencing inventions like the super soaker (invented by Lonnie Johnson) the air conditioner (invented by Frederick Jones) the three light traffic light (invented by Garrett Morgan) the lamp shade reminiscent of the light bulb (invented by Lewis Howard Latimer) the refrigerator (invented by Frederick McKinley Jones) along with the cellphone (invented by Henry T. Sampson)
But with all of these amazing inventions, the designer promoted the question: “who invented Black trauma?
Having writing this particular piece, I am reminded of not only these significant inventions made by these prominent Black figures but also made me research and want to learn so much about these individuals and many others who have greatly contributed to the world.
It further made me realize how invaluable our skills are and how truly important it is to tap into those skill sets and celebrate all of our counterparts who tap into these skills.
Welcome back to a long and I mean long awaited blog post here at Takemetotheheights.com!
I am BEYOND elated to be back in a space to write. Before I delve any deeper into tonight’s blog post, I hope everyone has been able to kick off their New Year on a positive note. 2020 was definitely and will always be that eye opening year for a lot of us.
So here we are back again after a much needed hiatus. Like many individuals, I started to feel the ebbs and flows of being unemployed. Yup, your girl was unemployed for a hot lil minute(I’ll delve deeper into this at another time)
I felt inadequate due to my lack of funds and thus it resulted in me not having the desire to write or be creative. I was devastatingly broke and felt incredibly embarrassed about it. Despite what I lacked at the time, it forced me to really be present and focus on the things and especially on someone that I haven’t been able to because of my then exhausting/not so great position(I’m so tempted to write a book about it😩)
I finally had time to focus on myself. I rediscovered my likes and dislikes and what really moves and drives me. I was at a place in my life I hadn’t been in a long time. Taking time to really delve deeper into myself forced me to reflect on what my happiness should look like. I spent so much time focusing on others. The moment I no longer needed to felt strange initially, yet I realized how much I needed to redefine myself and tap into me more.
It also forced me to realize that no job, person or circumstance should define my happiness and all of who I am. Let me repeat for the people who think otherwise:
No job, person or circumstance should define my happiness and all of who I am.
I was easily replaceable at my previous position and the moment that became a reality, I was flooded with so many emotions. Of course I worried as anyone would’ve in that situation, yet there was this overwhelming happiness that surrounded me. I no longer felt bombarded by my then workload. I honestly felt free.
I say all of that and then some to let you know that your happiness should never ( and I mean never) be defined by things, people or even jobs or lack there of. Being in the space I was, while unemployed really pushed me to look inward. We sacrifice so much of time and overall well being. We then lose sight of ourselves through it all.
Although it took me quite some time to get to this point, I am eternally grateful to have gone through those experiences. Through the good, bad and ugly (ugly cries and all) I no longer found myself sacrificing my happiness. I was finally at the forefront of steering my ship towards all that things that truly meant so much to me and then some. I knew it would only go up from there.
Before I end this blog post, I just want to reiterate the significance of truly finding your happiness. Not letting anything or anyone define that for you forces you to acknowledge what your worth and value is.
Aside from that, I also want to take the time in thanking those who continue to check out takemetotheheights.com. Even during my absence, I saw that many of you continued to check out my posts and it honestly means more to me than you’ll ever know.
Please stay tuned for all that’s in store and I will catch you in the next blog post.
Welcome back to Takemetotheheights.com! Before I delve deeper into this blog post, I just wanted to let you know how glad I am to be back to bring you another blog post! Y’all, I won’t even lie, I’ve gone back and forth about this particular blog post (grabs tissue)
Leaving September and feeling the uneasiness of the unknown (2020 in a nutshell) left my thoughts in overdrive. BRUH….I could do without it. The nights of being up into the wee hours of the morning….I felt as though the heaviness detered me at times from taking the next step towards my goals. I know I’m not the only one who has those nail biting moments. You know, those moments that just seem to loom over your head and casts a dark rain cloud.
Yet, even in those moments of all the overthinking, I can’t help but think how much more okay I felt with the idea of fully immersing myself into all that I’ve envisioned (I’ll eventually address this.)
With that being said, I am beyond elated to not only have kicked off October in full determination mode, but it’s officially my favorite time of the year. If you’re new here, this is the time where I am the most reflective as I await my birthday 🙏🏾🧿
This particular year has been filled with uncertainty and loss. Without a doubt, this year has been the biggest learning curve for me thus far. There were the the times (more times than I could count) where like many people, I also cancelled 2020. Having experienced the literal act of starting over in different aspects of my life (I could write a book on this y’all 😩) and relying on my faith and fully trusting myself throughout the process (and staying disciplined) has been challenging to say the least.
Aside from that, I am praying that October (and the months coming ahead) continue to open up more doors towards prosperity, more opportunities in tapping into my creativity, but above all else, relishing into my happiness no matter the circumstances. This year hasn’t been the easiest yet I walk in faith knowing that things will work out, no matter the challenges.
Before I close out, I just wanted to note that although this particular year hasn’t been what many of us were anticipating, I know deep down, this year will leave an indelible impression on us all. Let’s make the most of this last quarter by embarking on things/opportunities we never thought would be possible. Let’s challenge our views on what we thought wasn’t within our reach. Above all else, let’s continue to put one foot forward, keep our heads held high, honor whatever emotions we may feel along the way and keep going.
Let me know in the reply section what this last quarter means to you? What are your plans for the remainder of October? and what are you hoping to acheive this month or in the coming months?
If you made it towards the end, I thank you for reading this week’s blog post! I’ll catch you in the next one!
Coming into September, I honestly felt lackluster; pretty unmotivated. I knew deep down it stemmed from some personal fears I had as I continued to move forward in this new endeavor ( I will share more about this very soon 🙏🏾🧿)
These new prospects (my apologies in advance for how cryptic and ambiguous it sounds) left me feeling nervous. Yet, I found myself thinking back to a time when those feelings were all too familiar for me: Cues quick story time.
Prior to starting undergrad, I remember those same nervous feelings I had consequently due to me stepping into something that was for the most part unfamiliar. I remember feeling as if I didn’t have anyone who understood those woes per say(first generation college grads please rise) the weight of the pressure I put on myself was unimaginable.
Those same feelings sprang up once more when I tapped into unfamiliar territories yet again at the start of me entering a new space in my educational career. It happened once again when I dropped my first batch of merch for Takemetotheheights.com last year.
Despite those ever present familiar feelings and entering a state of uncertainty, I’m constantly reminded of how successful it turned out to be no matter the challenges that came along the way; how I chose to remain faithful and consistent in whatever I tapped into.
I’m saying all of this and then some as a reminder to myself and all those who frequent Takemetotheheights.com, and to essentially say: “keep going.” Easier said then done, trust me I get it. Yet, if it weren’t for those words my father kept drilling into my mind, I don’t even think I’d be writing this blog post to you right now. (Shout outs to the old man!) But in all seriousness, we are often reminded of the things that we haven’t done, want to do, or even wish we could do but never celebrate the things/moments we’ve achieved.
As we course through September, no matter what may come, let’s challenge our thoughts and the moment the negative starts to float into our minds. Let’s tap into what we are currently doing at the moment. Honor whatever feelings you may have but above all else acknowledge what you are doing (mindful meditation for the win!)
Being present has allowed me to surrender and ultimately let go the things/negative thoughts that have no place in my heart or spirit (Gem alert!) Thus, it has enabled me to further embrace all the splendor and joy that is awaiting me but also pushes me to dig deeper into aligment (I’ll save that for another post! 🙏🏾🧿)
All in all, coming into this particular blog post, I wasn’t too sure how I was going to navigate through my thoughts and share with you after some time has past, yet I knew it was time to dig a little deeper and ultimately share with you here at Takemeotheheights.com what’s been on my mind these last few weeks. My hope for you with this post is it resonates with you in some way shape or form but above all else, serves as a reminder to ultimately and truly remain present and give yourself grace through it all no matter the circumstances.
Before I end today’s post, let me know what September has taught you so far, what lesson(s) have played a role for you coming into September and or what are you hoping to gain from this month?
Be sure to leave me your replies in the reply section. As always, thank you for checking out today’s post and stick around for more Takemetotheheights.com!
For those of you who didn’t get a chance to check out our intro blog post all about nails, be sure to do so, then head on back to this post to read on more!
Aside from that, we are back to give you more all things nail related.
This time around, we figured it was best to showcase a few nail techs that were recommended to us via our Instagram page (be sure to follow and be part of the Heights Tribe!) and/or those that felt compelled to share their stories as nail techs in this ever-growing field. Coming into this particular post, we didn’t want to give you a quick overview of talented nail techs. We ultimately wanted to showcase these particular nail techs/artists’ client work and delve a little deeper and give you, the readers, an opportunity to get to know them a little better.
So long and behold, we present: Nailed It! here Takemetotheheights.com. In this blog post, we decided to ask these nail techs a few questions each respectfully about their techniques/businesses, how they navigated through COVID-19 and more. Let’s read on more and meet one of the nail techs.
Let’s meet: Cephanie of Clawed by Ceph!
“My name is Cephanie and I am 19. Instead of going to college, last fall I took the year off so that I could go to beauty school. As a new nail technician, I (was) determined to make the cosmetic industry more diverse.”
Ever since I was young, I’ve only seen predominantly Asian owned nail salons and predominantly Asian and white-owned beauty supply stores. (My hope is) to one day open a Black-owned nail salon and a contributing beauty supply store in my hometown. From there, I want to open several salons in low and high-income areas.
Clawdxceph is a nail cosmetics business that specializes in an acrylic overlay.
Upon the arrival of COVID-19, the global pandemic did not impact my business as severely as I thought it would.
I began doing nails in February 2020. We didn’t really see the effects of the pandemic until quarantine measures were taken in late March.
Before businesses were shut down, I (grew) a small clientele. However, my clientele wasn’t big enough where I suffered dramatically from the lack of work. There was a period during quarantine (where) I was unable to do nails.
When I was finally able to promote myself again, the level of support I received was very unexpected. Within months (of me) doing nails, my clientele (grew) considerably.
(Aside from my supportive clientele) I consider myself to be well educated on nail care and nail anatomy. My methods ensure proper nail health and nail maintenance. I start off by asking every single one of my clients to wash their hands. After that is done, we proceed to remove the nail’s natural shine, any excess cuticle, and hangnails, and then prepping the surface with a dehydrator and a nail primer. Next, is applying false tips and then acrylic application. Last but not least is shaping, filing, and finishing touches. All of my clients also get a complimentary hand massage, which not many nail technicians offer.
I developed my artistry for about 5 months. Although I was unable to do nails for (about a few months) due to COVID-19, I devoted my time to learn more without being hands-on. Quarantine gave me time to further educate myself.
Despite (my beauty school’s closure) I was and still am only able to do online schoolwork. My education was no longer hands-on.
Instead, it consisted of textbook learning, reading, and taking online assessments about cosmetology. I took these past several months as an opportunity to really educate myself about nail care.
While I was doing my online work, I was also watching YouTube videos (dedicated to nail techniques and education)
Until I was able to secure a mannequin hand and more nails supplies, I was (consistently) watching nail videos. I was watching (nail techs) work and (keeping) mental notes on what I needed to do to (enhance my nail techniques and artistry)
(Above all else) my advice to those who want to become a nail tech is to practice and trust yourself. Creativity is unlimited. You can do anything you put your mind to. Five months ago, I did not think I would have 1,000 followers (on Instagram) Five months ago, I did not think I would (receive this) much support.
One thing I’ve learned is before you can get any of that support, you need to support yourself. Another useful piece of advice is to work in secrecy. Educate and build your craft first. You shouldn’t be too quick to show off your work until you are 100% sure that this is what you want to do. You shouldn’t be too quick to charge people either. Make sure your work looks presentable, otherwise your client might react negatively. One negative experience could jeopardize your entire image.
Thank you Cephanie for sharing your insights all things nail tech/artistry related.
As mentioned in our previous post (Nailed It), we have returned with our final talented nail tech who has been in this industry for three years. Upon receiving this recommedation from another follower on our Instagram page, we instantly had to follow-up and gain more insight about this noteworthy nail tech. Let’s keep reading and discover more about Amara!
Let’s Meet: Amara of Nailed it by Amara!
Nailed it by Amara was created when I one day decided that I wanted to follow my almost life long dream of doing nails, while also giving amazing customer service because it was something I wasn’t used to experiencing when I went to the nail salon.
As a child, my mother had the quintessential 90’s girl super long nails. The (nails) curved, and they were all hers. We went to the nail salon every 2 weeks like clockwork for a fill-in. (From there) that’s (where) I found my love for nails. I was 6 years old when I told my mother that I would own a nail salon. It took me a while to commit to the dream. But I’m here now.
Nailed It By Amara is my small little escape from reality where I get to attempt perfection on tiny canvases the same way I grew up watching it be done for my mother at the nail salon.
(With) COVID-19, (it) made me change the ways in which I think as far as owning my own business. It made me figure out a way to express myself and make money, all while quarantined in the house.
(As a result of quarantine measures) I decided to make press on nails. I could do nails without ever having to touch a single client and I could make money while doing it. I had quite a bit of orders (to fulfill) and it most definitely helped me keep my sanity as well as stay afloat.
(With regard to specialization) it’s weird to say that I specialize in something because in my eyes I never feel like I perfected something. But, I specialize in acrylic nail enhancements as well as gel polish and enhancements.
Interestingly enough, I’m just getting comfortable with considering myself as an artist. But I feel that I developed my artistry thanks to the good ‘ole YouTube University and Instagram. I often search for things that I want to try and watch tons of videos and tutorials on how to achieve the look, and then I go sit at my nail table for hours and recreate until I like the finished product.
I’ve attended a few classes that have helped me learn more as a nail technician. But I must honestly say that my clients play a huge role in my development. They more often than not will show me something that they want to do that I’ve never done, and we’ll keep trying until we get it right. Many of the things that they’ve brought to me to recreate or to achieve have been things that I’ve been able to add to my arsenal of nail techniques.
I started doing my own nails for fun and taking it seriously in 2016. I became a licensed nail technician in 2017, and I’ve been fully submerged in all things nails since then.
(As far as advice goes) my one piece of advice that I have for anyone just starting out is do not underestimate how much of an undertaking doing nails actually is. We tend to watch people do a job for so long, to the point that we think it’s no big deal and that we can easily do what they’ve trained themselves to do overtime.
This leads to new nail techs getting discouraged when they try to recreate a look and it doesn’t come out as perfect as the original art. It’s okay. This job isn’t easy, and you most likely won’t be perfect on the first try. Don’t let that stop you.
For future clients looking to achieve any of these nail looks and then some be sure to visit Amara’s website: NaileditbyAmara.com and book your appointment.
Feels incredibly amazing to be back to give you another blog post. Coming into the last week of July, (let’s keep in mind that we’ve also entered the MIDDLE OF 2020, activate Mr. Krabs Meme)
It’s been quite the whirlwind, to say the least. Despite all that has occurred and keeps surprising us, I humbly believe in the power behind what this particular year has meant. For me, it FINALLY meant (the struggle has been real for your girl at times) to not only honor the space I’m in but heavily step into all that I am and all that I will be.
I remember in the past where I used to yearn for time to be able to truly tap into all that I enjoy doing. Although we can do without the current circumstances of COVID-19, (please continue to practice social distancing and wear your mask.) I honestly have a deeper appreciation for the things I once took for granted.
I can recall back to last year in the moments where I felt extremely tired from my day-to-day; not having the desire to do much of anything but just sleep after commuting home from work.
Now, the time spent in basking in my relaxation, my personal journey (I’ll eventually get to that) really honing in the time in talking to my loved ones has taught me a valuable lesson throughout all of this: “no matter what may be going on, continue to honor yourself in all of your glory and pour into yourself in all that you are and all that you are striving to become.”
Aside from that, (and this sizzling summer we’ve been experiencing -____-) I wanted to also check-in and see how you’ve been doing. Yes, you reading this blog post. I truly meant what I said in my last post where I hope we’ve all been taking the necessary energy (heavy on the ENERGY) to pour into our own cups and take care of our well- being. I won’t lie and say I didn’t succumb to the woes of being glued to my phone (more now than ever, Instagram and Facebook on heavy rotation) and not taking the necessary space to UNPLUG and unwind.
I unplugged for a bit coming into that last Sunday of July and I am eternally grateful that I was able to do so. My unplugging this time around involved me heading to the park submerging myself into nature’s splendor. The moment my feet touched the grass and felt that cool sensation, I literally felt like I was in heaven.
Coming into that last Sunday, I vowed to continue to not only pouring into myself (glass is ALWAYS full!) but striving to make it a conscientious habit of mine moving forward. Sundays reminder to myself into placing a deeper and richer priority to my well-being is my way of letting you know to continue to do the same for yourselves no matter what the circumstances.
As we course towards the end of the month, let’s be more congnizant of how we are practing self-care and what that ideally looks like for us. Is it beneficial to your well-being? Does it bring you joy? What other feelings come up as you tap deeply into your self-care practices?
Above all else, let’s allow July to bring us more joy as we prepare for August. Let me know in the reply section what your self-care practices look like and what you’re looking forward to in August.
Before I even begin tonight’s blog post, let me just say: “Hola. What’s up?”
It’s been a while since my last post here at Takemetotheheights.com.
Before I jump into what tonight’s post is all about, It would be a disservice to myself and to the readers if I did’nt address what’s been on my heart/mind coming into June with all that’s been going on. With the most recent case revolving Elijah McClain, the protests circulating the murder of George Floyd and the countless other Black lives taken by law enforcement, it was imperative to shine a light to those who are no longer here.
I felt that it was best to say that we must continue to embrace life and the glory that lies behind it. Coming into June, I found myself using different ways to express my thoughts/feelings about all that has been going on. However, an experience where I shared my thoughts made me reaffirm the significance with just how empowering it felt to truly amplify my voice.
Tonight’s particular post is dedicated to Breonna Taylor, George Floyd, Elijah McClain, and the countless other Black lives that have been taken. I almost had no desire to share yet I knew it was best for me to keep pushing through. Granted it has been an overwhelmng experience witnessing the lives lost on full display on the news but channeling the way in which I needed to close out this month was all the more reason for me to truly express my thoughts.
With that being said, I have decided to put a pause on how often I am writing out these blog posts and will reach out to other outlets to effectively use my voice and support other brands who not only look like me but truly strive for change. In the coming weeks, there will be changes made to the site as I continue to revamp/rework a few backend things.
But before I close out tonight’s blog post, I just want to stress the significance of how divine we truly are and although we face trials and tribulations, we are undeniably filled with a magic that is inpenetrable.
Love on one another as much as you can and truly cherish each other.
Know that you are doing all that you can and then some regardless of what your medium of expression is.
When it gets too overwhelming from the news/any other media outlet and or social media, unplug and take care of yourself/each other in the healthiest way possible.
If this particular post resonated with you in any way shape or form, please leave me your replies.
First, I’d like to take this time to acknowledge all the moms, expectant mothers, and all those who play mom in the lives of their loved ones. Yesterday’s Mother’s Day was indeed different with regard to quarantine living, but I truly hope all those that were able to celebrate were granted the opportunity to do so.
Coming into 2020 Mother’s Day, I won’t lie I was feeling a little overwhelmed. The first order of business, I took some time away from social media. I spent the vast majority of Mother’s Day creating and remaining peaceful but also allowing myself the space to express any emotion I needed to. I didn’t feel pressured to make a post about it as I knew I was going to spend that day reflecting.
I thought about all of the beautiful memories I was able to create with my mother. I couldn’t help but also think about those who spent their Mother’s Day without their loved ones. So I decided to turn today’s blog post into a dedication post/how to cope without a loved one while quarantined.
Now I will note it wasn’t easy for me to step away from my phone for a bit (quarantine living new norm) but I knew, in the end, it will make me feel all the better about that particular holiday.
And so, I’ve thought about 4 ways to use coping mechanisms while quarantined
(There are others but for the sake of the current climate in practicing social distancing, these will suffice)
Reach out to a close friend/loved one. Sharing your thoughts and ultimately connecting with someone will give you the space to feel heard.
Create new memories/recount old memories. As a creative, I find solace in producing art. Whenever I have the space to do so, it feels like a literal weight is off of my shoulders.
Take into account how you’re feeling. Journal any thought/emotion you’re feeling and or showcasing.
Utilize resources like counseling or therapy. There are many licensed professionals who are offering cost-effective services virtually. Pyschology.com is one online resource that offers a listing of these professionals.
There are hundreds of other ways but with our new “norm” and practicing social distancing, I compiled a list of the safest/healthiest ways to cope while quarantine living.
Let me know how did you go about celebrating your loved one while quarantined? Is there a healthy coping mechanism that you utilize not listed above? If so, let me know in the replies.
As always, thank you for taking the time in checking out today’s post. It means more to me than you’ll ever know!
Hey y’all and welcome back to Takemetotheheights.com! As we approach the last day of April(yes I finally printed a calendar, so my concept of time is back!) I wanted to check-in with the readers and ask, how are you?
As of lately, I’ve been feeling rather optimistic and overall hopeful. I’ve been allowing myself the opportunity to just remaining present all the while savoring the time I have now to truly pour into myself. I spent months beforehand pouring into a job, people, and their opinions all the while I kept putting things on the back burner.
Now, look at this growth!
Coming into April (after I gave myself the permission to feel any and every wave of emotion from March) I was ready to fully take on all that I wanted and really be on my Megan The Stallion mood (I know I’m not the only one who has listened to the remix)
So with that being said, I’ve decided to title this blog post-“My May”. For anyone looking to set new intentions, start a new project, collaborate with a brand, or even relish in this time we have, I want you to look at May and say “My May.” Let this month be the start of all that we will accomplish all the while honoring how we feel.
Whichever course you decide to take for “My May” is OKAY. Don’t feel pressured to produce something simply because of what or who you follow on your socials. Be present in the now and really soak in the time we have.
Above all else, I’m reaffirming May to be the month of us fulfilling all of our personal goals, stepping out of our comfort zone (for me it’s been recording more), and remaining faithful in my creative endeavors.
Let me know what your intentions are coming into May?. What has April taught you moving forward?
Before I end tonight’s post, I just want to take this time in thanking all of the essential workers that have been working on the front lines, as well as all of my fellow educators who have been going above and beyond for their students. Parents, thank you for continuing to push through this difficult time as you continue to wear many hats and still put on a brave face for your loved ones. Lastly, I just want to note how proud I am of the students doing their due diligence in heading into their Zoom classrooms or even completing their assignments. You are all amazing and I am incredibly proud of you.
Let’s continue to practice safe and healthy measures as we enter a new month during unprecedented times.
As always peace, love and I hope to catch you in the next blog post,
Hey and welcome back to Takemetotheheights.com! Round of applause to another blog post and say it with me C O N S I S T E N C Y. The Lordt only knows how much I needed to come back and give you guys yet another blog post.
But before I move any further, how are you guys? I truly hope you’re doing well. Although these current circumstances are not ideal, I pray that you can find solace during these times. As for me, I’ve been very reflective and hopeful coming into April.
This time around, I’m focusing today’s post on welcoming April with open arms and remaining optimistic. I know we’ve entered day 133 (I’m exaggerating I know but it feels like it’s been this long) of being quarantined, but coming into April, I didn’t feel indifferent. I more so felt positive about entering a new chapter. Starting anew gives me the ability to set new intentions for the remainder of the month.With that being said, I have a few things up my sleeve for April so please stay tuned.
Now back to quarantine living. Although I’ve utilized most of my time catching pretty much everyone’s Instagram live, I told myself coming into April I will devote more time to scheduling my content for Takemetotheheights.com. Bruh am I glad that I FINALLY got the chance to do so. I got a little worried that I would have difficulties in doing so, but before I knew it, I had so many ideas that I needed to flesh out for new content.
But aside from that, let’s all just allow this new month to be indicative of all the amazing things that await us. I challenge the readers to also take this time in setting new intentions to keep the momentum going. Whether it be that project that you’ve been putting off or that book that you have yet to finish (I have a few I want to finish as well) take the time in reaching that finish line once and for all.
Above all else, I hope you guys are continuing to take the necessary safety precautions in remaining safe and healthy. Also, as mentioned in the previous blog post, Quarantine and Chill,stay home if you do not need to be outside. Before I end tonight’s post, I just want to say thank you to those who have checked out all of the recent blog posts here at Takemetotheheights.com! Be sure to follow everything Heights related on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook.
It’s officially Day 7 of being quarantined (I think). It honestly feels like day 111. How has everyone been doing? I hope you all are okay. Me, I’ve been spending the majority of my time indoors writing/doing things to keep me entertained.
Tonight’s blog post is all about what you can do during this time. Before I even begin, I just want to note that I know these are very sensitive times and I truly hope we are staying indoors and following the necessary procedures put on place by the CDC. But above all else, I hope we are taking this time to truly take care of ourselves in all aspects of health.
I’ve come up with just 7 ways to keep yourself preoccupied during this quarantine. Now keep in mind, there are so many ways, but these ways, in particular, I’ve been practicing.
Here are 7 ways you can keep yourself productive/ preoccupied while in quarantine
Catch up with a loved one. It’ll allow you to utilize the time that you never thought you had due to your busy schedule.
Read your favorite book or check out a new one.
Devote this time to much-needed self-care. Again, this is the time you’ve never had due to your hectic schedule. Light your favorite candle. Burn some sage. Pour your favorite glass of wine (Moscato for the win!). Whatever self-care looks to you, now’s the time to do so.
Find a new show to binge-watch. Like a lot of people, I’ve also been tuning into All American.
De-clutter and organize your space. You probably have shoes and clothes that you no longer wear. It’s time to do that Spring cleaning you’ve been trying to put off for quite some time now.
Take a nap. I can’t count how many times I’ve already done this.
Create a new music playlist. I’m currently compiling my favorite Ty Dolla $ign songs. If you want me to share it with you, let me know in the reply section!
Bonus: Please stay indoors. If you’re not required to be outside, stay home. I can’t stress this enough.
Practice social distancing by hosting online ventures whether it be a DJ session, a dance class, yoga, do karaoke by having your friends join your live on Instagram and singing along with you or just simply chatting online with your friends. You can also FaceTime your friends.
Above all else, enjoy the time you have whether it be to yourself or with a loved one. Stay safe and let’s continue to practice humanity and empathy with one another.
Welcome back to another edition of Takemetotheheights.com!
It truly feels amazing to say that again after all this time.
Now before I even start let me just apologize for not writing to you guys in the last few months. I have so much to share/ spill with you guys I don’t even know where to begin. Above all else, I hope everyone has been setting new goals/intentions for him or herself coming into 2020.
Aside from that, I can say that I’ve been in better spirits since we last touched base. I no longer feel the heavy burden of my day to day (I’ll get into that in another blog post) If only you guys knew what went on, you too would feel drained and no longer passionate about the things you truly love to do. However, something happened where I realized I needed to reshift my focus and really give my all and attention to the things I truly enjoy doing no matter the circumstances.
This new found sense of freedom that I have is truly undeniable. Never did I think I’d be in a space where I truly felt free to do whatever my heart desires. I feel more inspired than ever and I can’t wait to share what else I have in store for you guys.
So yes, I can officially and proudly say:
I’M BACK AND I AIN’T GOING NOWHERE
No seriously. Did you guys miss me? Because I definitely missed you. No, I don’t plan on leaving anytime soon. Takemetotheheights has become a huge component of my life that if I no longer devoted to it, I would be doing a disservice to not only myself but to all those who take the time in reading these blog posts. For those who have continuously checked in or even asked questions about Takemetotheheights, it truly means the world to me and then some.
So as always, please stay tuned to all that I have planned. I have so much more up my sleeve. Before I end tonight’s blog post, I just want to take this time in saying how much I appreciate each and every single one of you. You guys have continuously proved time and time again just how devoted you are to Takemetotheheights.
Make sure that you’re following Takemetotheheights on Insta, Facebook and Twitter to stay up to date with everything Heights related.
Stay safe and I’ll check you guys in the next post.
It’s been forever and a day…but I finally get to say:
Welcome back to another installment of Takemetotheheights.com.
I’m just gonna jump right into it.
My last blog post was in August (I know I’ve been slacking 😩). Now before I even get into the why’s and whatnot, let me just note how thrilled I am to be writing again. Feels so good to come back and share with you guys what’s been on my mind.
So let’s rewind a bit. Since we last touched base I was gearing up to head back to work for the new school year(man I miss summer. 😰) Let’s just say September was the start of my shaky months ahead. All of September I already was beginning to feel burnt out ( I was already exhausted and tired of work y’all…OVER IT.) I instantly lost my desire to write because of my day to day work life(which I’ll eventually share with you guys) and long and behold October was coming closer and closer.
Aside from it being my birthday, it also marked a year since my loved one’s passing.
How was I functioning? I wasn’t. I completely checked out from work and found myself not being present for others. I couldn’t describe the feeling then. I just knew I didn’t feel like myself.
Tonight’s blog post is me shedding light on those moments where we oftentimes might check out due to overwhelming circumstances. I felt that it was imperative for me to say to you guys that no matter what, keep pushing through. I know it’s easier said than done.
But if it wasn’t for me checking in with myself and utilizing my resources I would’ve never been present to even write out this blog post let alone go about my day. Despite those moments I had in October, I above all else definitely looked forward to kicking off November in the best way possible.
I also want to make note that those moments truly taught me something valuable: never ever take for granted your resources (whether it be in the form of therapy, counseling, or something that you prefer such as a hobby that you enjoy doing or even reaching out to a loved one)
I feel more empowered than ever and I can’t wait to see what else this month has to offer. I’m affirming nothing else but positivity for the remainder of this month and the months to follow.
Before I close out this post, I just want to thank those who check out Takemetotheheights whether it be here or on Instagram.
Your unwavering support means the world to me and then some.
It’s officially August and I just want to take this time in saying: Let’s continue crushing our goals, be open to all of the amazing opportunities that will present itself to us but most importantly, let’s continue doing all that we love and then some all the while receiving the fruits of our labor.
Entering August, I felt even more compelled to continue sharing with you guys in different mediums. For those of you who have checked out my first hair video, just know that there will be more on the way.
Truthfully, before I dropped that video I felt a little discouraged but I knew I had to keep pushing forward no matter how many times I became doubtful. I knew in the end that video and all that’s going to happen for Takemetotheheights.com will be all the worthwhile.
The video truly served as a reminder just how much my doubts can often times get the best of me, yet I’m glad I got the opportunity to upload and share it with you guys. It’s been well received and I do have another hair video coming sooner rather than later!
Above all else, I am looking forward to all of the collaborations that will occur this month. Please stay tuned to that as well!
Let’s not forget that with any new month, let’s continue to set our intentions and know that all that you want and desire is truly there. Just continue to manifest but above all else, put in that work. So like July, I hope that August treats us well and I look forward to all that will occur.
If you have any goals you’d like to share in the reply section please feel free to do so, also, don’t forget to check out my hair as well as my other blog posts and stay tuned for what else I have in store for Takemetotheheights.com!
This post is lonnnnnnggggggg overdue. But before I delve any deeper into tonight’s blog post, let me just take this time in apologizing for any confusion I have caused with any emails you guys have received about published blog posts. I’ll be all the way honest:
I was not all the way confident about those posts and I found myself going back making changes here and there to them. For now, those posts will be kept on the back burner as I turn my attention to something a bit more important.
Now I know it has become quite the norm for me to not write as often as I had hoped but I knew the comeback would ideally be all the worthwhile. Tonight, I’m turning my attention to my standstill.
This go-round, my standstill was and is my moment in really listening to what I truly need and essentially blocking out the things, people etc..that no longer serve me. This time frame is vital in the sense where it has allowed me to really zero in on what I truly need to focus on and what really pushes me for the better.
I can recall a time where my standstill was more so used as a defense mechanism/an excuse to no longer do the things that I love or even set precedence on the things that hold value in my life.
Moving further not just for the summer but in my adult life, I wholeheartedly knew that approaching this particular season would force me to really take ownership of all that I am and all that I can deliver. #Period
For anyone who is currently going through his or her own standstill, just bear in mind the following:
You have the absolute right to a standstill. Not everyone will understand why and that’s okay, just remember why you decided to do so and what you plan on doing after.
This goes back to your why. Reflect on what caused (or what’s currently causing you to have) your standstill. Know that you truly hold the power to move beyond any doubts or fears you might have.
Lastly, your comeback will speak volumes for you! As often as I’ve taken my moments to reflect and essentially have a standstill, I knew the aftermath of it all would be monumental. Just know you have to put the work in to show and prove and never forget why you started in the first place.
Before I end tonight’s post, I want to take this time in truly thanking those who visit Takemetotheheights.com.It never goes unnoticed and I will forever be filled with gratitude because of it.
Also, please be sure to leave me your comments about tonight’s blog post and stay tuned for any other posts/updates from Takemetotheheights.com!
For starters, I honestly was not anticipating June 😐😓
With April came along Mother’s Day and that first birthday.
Whew! I won’t even lie, it was beyond tough getting through those last two months. As a result, I felt more inclined to just disappear; not write or even record for a bit.Forget about me blogging at the very end of May.
Yet, the hope remained for those woes to subside and eventually get it together in due time.
I was so wrong in believing that hype. SMH.And so as a result, I turned this first blog post for June as a little reminder/a few tips to all those who are experiencing the same feelings.
1. Never ever feel afraid of utilizing the resources that are available to you. Whether it be counseling or therapy, whatever healthy medium, know that it’s for you.
2. If need be, take the necessary time to just be. All that means is don’t feel as if you have to rush nor don’t allow anyone to rush your process.
3. Remember that once you utilize those resources, you have granted yourself the permission to truly be aware of every wave of emotion and it’s okay.
4. Give yourself time. I can’ t stress that enough. There have been moments where I felt that if I didn’t complete something, I was not doing enough. Do know that you have to take time to pour into you. The moment you feel as if you aren’t doing enough, you’ll feel the urge to continue to pour into other things/other people. Never ever forget you throughout all of this. Baby Girl/Baby Boy, you matter too.
*Ultimately, do what works for you in the healthiest way possible.*
Before I end this blog post, I just want to say look how far we have gotten and all that we’ve accomplished!
We’ve come a long way to get to this point so let’s relish in these moments/highlights and hold on to that!
Above all else, thank you for checking out today’s blog post. It means the world to me and then some in knowing that you guys hold it down and keep coming back😩🙌🏾
Let’s take this time in finally welcoming Spring (it’s been a LONG time coming 😩)
I am beyond happy that it’s May and although last month was not the easiest for me (I was itching for May to come) I want to welcome in all the amazing opportunities for more collaborations, partnerships as well as earning more $
Above all else, welcome to Takemetotheheights.com🙌🏾
Thank you for tuning in today’s blog post! Last month taught me even more what I need to continue to do… COMMUNICATE.Yes, I take the time in doing so, but was it truly effective? Was it really meaningful?
I say all of that and then some to simply indicate/ stress how vital it was for me to push forth my voice. I felt empowered to do so at work and within my personal peer groups…yet under stress, I felt myself reverting back into my shell and dwelling on the could have/should have been.
I grew tired of it.
Here I was making the strides I needed to do so in terms of realigning myself but I couldn’t, no refused to talk. It honestly grew annoying and I reached my breaking point.
With this particular post, I didn’t want to give off the vibe that I had everything figured out. Nor did I want to normalize not communicating.
Our voices hold so much weight and power. I can’t forget how important it is for me to regain that strength especially in spaces that are not deemed for people who look like me.
So, with that being said, there’s gonna be a huge shift in the way in which I use another outlet in expressing myself especially during times of difficulties.
I can’t forget the significance of using my voice in every capacity and circumstance.
Pray for me y’all..there might be a video sooner than you think.
All in all, I’m taking more ownership/advocating more of my needs and wants and expressing myself through voice.
I’ll have my moments here and there, but for me to share this with you guys is true growth.
Before I end today’s blog post, I just want to take this time in thanking all those who check out Takemetotheheights.com.
It means more to me than you’ll ever know.
Let me know your thoughts about today’s blog post and make sure you’re following Takemetotheheights on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook!
Thank you for tuning in to this edition of Takemetotheheights.com! If you read last month’s write-up, then you know very well what tonight’s blog post is all about. The Three-Peat Poetry Event is officially the new name for Ohhh Snap Poetry 3! I am so glad I got the opportunity to come out once again and witness artists take center stage and share their love for spoken-word poetry.
For this write-up, I decided to upload some footage I got that night just to give you a taste of what Ohhh Snap Poetry Event is all about!
Poets that night included but are not limited to:
Along with many others.
The hosts that night were @dizzybrown718 and @mw_free (both can be found on Instagram) Together, they brought energy and Friday night’s vibe to get the crowd ready for the event. Thank yous are in order forCreative Square Studios (CSSBK) Brand Ambassador, Dizzy Brown, and the owner of CSSBK for once again giving me the opportunity in giving you another write-up.
Check out parts 1 and 2 of Ohhh Snap Poetry 3 down below and you’ll find yourself wanting to see more! Luckily, I was able to upload two videos to share with you from Ohhh Snap Poetry 3 Event.
Check out parts 1 and 2 of May’s Edition of Ohhh Snap Poetry Event 3
All in all, these poets captivated the audience and kept us engaged at all times. It truly takes an immense amount of courage to take center stage and share your passions, art but most importantly, your thoughts to the world.
Thank you, poets, for putting forth your craft and having it serve as a reminder for me to keep pushing forward and honoring my true gifts. If you are looking to attend the next Ohhh Snap Poetry Event, be sure to do so if you are in the NYC area or plan on visiting. All Ohhh Snap Poetry Events are held at Creative Square Studios located in Brooklyn. Be sure to visit CSSBK’s website here for all of their future events.
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Good evening and welcome back to none other than Takemetotheheights.com!
In tonight’s installment, I am more than thrilled to embark on my journey of Ohhh Snap 2 Poetry Event’s second showcase!
If you weren’t at this event, then you are clearly missing out on all of the magnificent spoken word artists both new and old who showed out last week Friday.
Before I delve any further, let me just note how overjoyed I felt in knowing I was able to come out for this second event.
With the excitement and anticipation from last month’s showcase, there was undoubtedly this climatic energy in the air.
April 5th’s poetry event was reminiscent of the feeling of rebirth.
That feeling of rediscovering all that I am and all that I love made Ohhh Snap 2 Poetry Event all the worthwhile. Poets that night included but are not limited to:
along with others.
You can find all of these poets with their respective Instagram names all on Instagram.com.
Collectively, they all allowed me to further delve deeper into my self-awareness and continue to harness the power I have.
Aside from that, I just want to express my gratitude in thanking Creative Square Studios BKNY and @dizzybrown718 (brand ambassador) the opportunity in helping me provide you guys with write-up number 2 for Ohhh Snap 2 Poetry Snap event.
It was truly an eye-opening experience for me and then some. I just want to extend my gratitude to these spoken word artists who showcased their courageous spirits in this space made for us and by us.
Themes that presented themselves that night included but were not limited to our strength in numbers, honing in all that we are and then some, harnessing our true potentials when used effectively in our communities, love for one another, how we view ourselves in the eyes of our peers and others.
Entering this space made possible by Creative Square Studios Brooklyn NY (CSSBKNY), made it evident of its effect in fostering our development and showcasing what happens when we are granted more opportunities in Black self-expression.
Before I close out this months’ write-up for Ohhh Snap Poetry 2 Event, please be sure to visit CSSBKNY’s website by visiting csquarebk.com and stay tuned for when the next Ohhh Snap Poetry Eventwill be held along with any other future events hosted by CSSBKNY.
Also, if you’re looking to host your very own event, look no further!
CSSBK is your one stop shop for your event needs🙌🏾
Be sure to visit their site at csquarebk.com when inquiring about utilizing their space for your events and follow them on Instagram at cssbk.
Also, make sure you’re following the above-mentioned poets as well as Creative Square Studio BK’s Brand Ambassador, Dizzy Brown (@dizzybrown718) on Instagram.
As always, love on one another and stay tuned for the next write-up brought to you by Takemetotheheights.com!
In this edition of Takemetotheheights.com, I decided to switch gears and place my focus on an individual who showcases the committed go-getter.
Erica, better known as Signed e. is the fashion designer who is recapturing the essence of authenticity behind her budding brand.
Having met Erica at Sister Social (by MLNNNYC) proved time and time again that your clientele/tribe will show up for you before you even realize it.
Having the opportunity to connect with other like-minded individuals in this safe space like those created by MLNNYC, was and continues to be essential to further foster my own growth and development as a Black woman.
Let’s get right into these garments
“Get Me Body” Bodysuit
I loved that I could play around with this top due to its whimsical nature in fabric choice.
“Tie me up” short sleeved crop top
For starters, this magical crop top isn’t the everyday top that you see in other stores. The lacing alone gave this piece the extra oompf most crop tops need.
I love the simplicity yet low key approach to this particular piece.
Down below, you’ll find me wearing the top while out on dinner. It is truly a comfortable fit. I loved that it truly stood out and can serve as a staple piece in my fall/summer wardrobe. (Pieces that can be worn in different seasons are pocket-friendly but also saves the trouble of having to rearrange our entire closet.)
I styled the crop top with a few of my favorite dainty necklaces.
The ambitious designer behind the brand reminded so much of myself when I was taking Apparel Design in high school.
Erica’s tenacity was that reminder for me and to all of the readers who are in fashion or are creatives to continue to push forward and presevere no matter the trials and tribulations.
Here’s another piece that every woman needs in her closet: LBS (Little Black Skirt)
I love the versatility behind a mini skirt, let alone in black. Additions like these in your closet with allow easy transition through looks.
The next but certainly not last piece redefines sexy, yet chic and it is truly made for the curvy woman in mind (just like all of her other show-stopping pieces) I won’t lie, I’m a sucker for a body con dress, but this one?!!!
It is by far trendy in its own right but is indeed a statement piece…
Thanks for tuning into this week’s blog post from none other than takemetotheheights.com.
Tonight, I’m turning my attention to rebirth.
Inspired by A$ap Ferg’s song, Rebirth, I felt the urge going further into this month of March to discuss how much power that term has once you take ownership of it.
As of recently, I’ve been manifesting and transitioning into this new being…I felt a new leaf was being turned over for me.
Meditation sold separately*
I grew in a deeper and much more comfortable space in expressing my feelings as opposed to suppressing them (growth y’all!) The power of acceptance was and continues to be vital.
I made and continue to make travel plans. Experiencing the unknown allowed me to push the boundaries in connecting with other people.
But most importantly, my deeper sense of self-awareness has been blooming and I couldn’t help noticing what I’ve been experiencing.
Taking more risks in all that I am passionate about. (Grind Season activated)
No longer feeling the need to carry the heavy burden of other people’s emotions/ thoughts and ideas.
Trusting my gut and being purposeful in all that I do.
Be that impulsive go-getter. No one or nothing can tell you otherwise. #Period.
Disclaimer: This hasn’t been an overnight thing for me so as a result I constantly go back and forth🤦🏾♀️
I’ve spent a vast majority of my life second and triple guessing myself. Yet, coming into this re-alignment, I found myself shedding old habits that were no longer serving me and putting in the work to match it.
Execution is all that will matter at the end of the day.
So far, I’ve embarked on my life journey countless times😩 and I’ve slipped up on numerous occasions. But I knew deep down, this was all a part of my process and that change is not linear.
Before I end tonight’s blog post, it’s imperative for me to point out the power that we all possess. Take ownership of it. Put in the work and you’ll reap the benefits of it all.
Let me know in the reply section your thoughts on tonight’s blog post. Have you been experiencing this wave of rebirth? If so, let me know down below!
Ohhh! Snap’s host that night was Dizzybrown718, who delivered his own spin to new age hosting at CSSBK. Friday’s event at Creative Square Studios Bk was the prime example of what happens when more Black spaces are created for expression.
If you weren’t there that night, you definitely missed out on greatness.
Before I close out today’s post, be sure you check out each of the poets’ Instagram pages to check out their amazing work. Also, make sure to visit the above-mentioned host’s IG page to see when the next Poetry event will be.
Above all else, don’t forget to visit Creative Square Studios BK website as well as their Instagram page to stay afloat of their future events. If you find yourself visiting Brooklyn, New York, make sure you stop by and let them know Takemetotheheights sent you there!
Let me know your thoughts about today’s write up in the reply section!
If you wish to have your very own write-up or you’re looking to be featured, be sure to click the contact tab for more info.
As always, love on one another and be sure to stay tuned to my next post.
“Epiphanies are essentially the building blocks to making your dreams a reality” M.V.
Welcome and thank you for joining this week’s installment of Takemetotheheights.com.This week we’re gonna focus on the power of epiphanies and how important it is to pay attention and listen to what they’re saying to us.
Before anything else, let me just wish us all a happy March filled with productive and prosperous filled moments.
As of lately, my epiphanies have literally been showing me what I never took the time to realize in myself: KEEP BELIEVING IN YOURSELF AND KEEP PUTTING IN THAT WORK AND SHOW AND PROVE!
So here I was, back from my trip and all I kept thinking was:
“Am I truly living a purposeful life?”
“Am I doing all that I set out/dreamed of since I was a child?”
I couldn’t keep faking the funk. I allowed myself to believe that I’ll eventually get to it when I have the money or my absolute favorite excuse: “When I have more time.”I knew better than anyone else that time waits for no one.
I knew I needed/desired to put more action into what I’m truly passionate about no matter the circumstances.And so, my epiphany, sure enough, came when I was on my trip and taught me something:“You took a risk coming here alone because you BELIEVED you could. Why stop there?!”
So with that thought in mind, I began EXECUTING all that I envisioned for myself. Trust me, it took years (forever and a day) for me to get to this point. But I wouldn’t trade it for anything in the world.
I began organizing more. Setting deadlines and holding myself more accountable for the things I sought after. Regardless of how tired I felt from my day to day, I knew I had to essentially keep grinding.
Before I close out tonight’s blog post, I just want to say tap into your intuition and pay attention to what the universe might be trying to show you.
Be sure to leave me your thoughts and comments if this blog post resonated with you. Let me know what your specific goals/dreams are. What’s your plan of action?
As always, thank you for checking out this week’s blog post.
Love on one another and I’ll catch you guys in my next post.
I hope you all are well. This week’s blog post is special in the sense that I am manifesting all that I’ve set my eyes on since FOREVER! For starters, I am in California writing this blog post to you guys. If y’all only knew how much it took for me to get to this point in traveling; in my life, let alone going on my first solo trip, y’all would understand.
The Lordt only knows how much I needed to take this time being on break from work to go away. I’ve been holding on to so many emotions, that the moment I landed I felt a sense of relief. I felt as if I regained my independence but most importantly I felt like I got me back.
For some time now, I felt indifferent about myself and the ways in which I would handle certain situations in my life (I thought I had the answers but my name ain’t Sway!)
As a result of that feeling, I’ve decided to touch on intentions for this blog post. Before you go and look up the word INTENTION, it’s basically a cooler way of saying purpose (depending on the context of what you’re saying.)
So long and behold. Here I am in California thinking about living with intention. I realized there were numerous occasions in which my life full circled and I was constantly reminded of my purpose.
I initially set out to do all the basic tourist attractions, but after visiting Venice Beach, it dawned on me that I’m on this trip for me and no one else. I have the power to truly go anywhere I wanted and I wouldn’t be pressed about it.
It’s truly an amazing feeling to have and I feel blessed in knowing I have that agency in my life. This new surge of power I’ve been feeling has inspired me to talk to you guys in other capacities aside from takemetotheheights.com.
In the past, I didn’t feel I had that power within myself.
I handed my power off to the wrong people/relationships I’ve dealt with.
This new wave of agency/ownership has allowed me to have an incredibly different outlook on life. Who would’ve thought in my 27 years of life I would be in a place where I can acknowledge that?! Accountability is everything and then some y’all!
But on a more serious note, I know I have more work to do in terms of putting in the time to continue to heal, as well as truly and wholeheartedly continue to put my feelings on the forefront.
Before I close out tonight’s blog post, I decided to share my footage of Venice Beach down below!
*I do not own the rights to this song. Uploaded through Snapchat. Editing provided by Hypno*
As always, please be sure to leave me your thoughts and comments. Let me know if you’ve visited California or are from there!
Before I even get into this week’s blog post, let me just say that I am eternally grateful to those who root for Takemetotheheights. Your patience and support to not only me but to this blog site mean so much to me and then some. In due time, I will show my gratitude to you guys. (Stay tuned!)
Above all else, it’s already February. Was’nt it just the New Year literally yesterday?! And who else needed a redo of January? (I definitely restarted my New Year this month so if you see me and I say Happy New Year to you, please say it back lol)
I am beginning this month by reaffirming my love affair with self-care and wellness. Lord knows how much I’ve taken a HUGE back seat in that department and I am currently paying the price for it.
These last few months were incredibly hard for me (where’s my box of tissues?)
There were literally moments where I no longer wanted to write anymore. But deep down I knew that wouldn’t be fair to myself or my readers. The trauma and grief I was dealing with (still am, unfortunately) was for sure trying to eat away at me. I had no desire to do much of anything. Yet going into this new month, I knew I needed to change my outlook on things and just appreciate life for what it truly is.
My mother would’ve wanted me to do so. She always pushed for me to really live my life to the fullest and not allow trials or tribulations to get the best of me.
Trauma can and will destroy you if you allow it to do so. I didn’t want to mourn the loss in such a detrimental manner any longer nor did I want to stop doing the things I truly love to do.
I ideally needed to rediscover my happiness and tap more into what truly makes me, well me. I am a lover of beauty, design, travel…basically any and everything that ideally exemplifies a Libra. (Libra gang, Moon in Aries to be exact)
And so, with that being said, I have a few things coming up this month….one which requires me to pack which I have yet to do (I literally pack the night before, I gotta do better) and the other….well I don’t want to give it away just yet….
But before I leave this week’s post, I just want to say I hope February and the months to come bring about more opportunities for collaboration, more coint for our pockets (prosperity out in this bish) more opportunities to truly take care of ourselves and to enjoy life while we are still blessed to do so.
Let me know in the comments section what you’re looking forward to/what you have in store and I will catch you guys in my next blog post!
Happy Tuesday!!!! (definitely intended for this to go out sooner but I caught ANOTHER COLD) Thank you for checking out tonight’s blog post. It definitely means a lot to me and then some.
I can’t believe it’s already October. Just TWO more months until the year is officially over. (No, seriously, before you know it, we’ll be sharing New Years Resolutions and what not!)
I hope we take this time to truly do all that we have our hearts set for, do all that we’ve been dreaming about and not be afraid of taking any risks. Seize any and every opportunity available by any means!
For the remainder of this month, I not only challenge myself but to all of the readers to set our fears aside and our doubts and really push forward no matter what obstacles that may come about.
We owe it to ourselves to really take that leap of faith and just go for it.
Aside from all of that, I am even more so thrilled that it’s finally October because……
IT’S OFFICIALLY MY BIRTHDAY MONTH (Libra gang!)
I may or may not practice this particular move in front of the mirror lol.
So for the remainder of this month, I’ve decided to post three times out of each week to kick off my National Holiday.
Yes, you read that correctly. More blog posts for my readers so please stay tuned!! I look forward to giving you all even more content as I continue to explore and delve deeper into my creativity.
I can’t wait to see what else this month has in store for me. I welcome the opportunity for more collaborations as well as more opportunities to venture out and explore new experiences with people and places. I also look forward to the opportunities to refocus and redirect my attention to doing more of what I love no matter how tired I might be from working during the day.
Each start of a new month is our opportunity to start anew and bask in all of the amazing possibilities that are out there.
Before I move any further, I want to know what you’re looking to manifest for this month? Are there any goal(s) you’re looking to achieve?
Be sure to let me know what you’ll be looking forward to for this month in the reply section below and stay tuned for what else I have in store for Takemetotheheights.com!
My apologies for not posting as much as I wanted to. I knew I needed to take some time to just process some thoughts/feelings I’ve been having. Aside from that, how have y’all been?
Can you believe summer is done? We legit just have 3 months until the new year 😩😩😩Where has the year gone?!!!!
Welp, with any new month, I welcome it with open arms and an open mind. I welcome all of the amazing opportunities that are in store for me.
September means so much to me and then some:
For starters, this month kicks off New York Fashion Week and let me just say this year has truly opened my eyes to the amazing work and creativity designers showcase. For those of you who aren’t aware, I’ve shared my favorite looks from fashion week. Be sure to check out part one of my 3 part series under Fashion Files.
Aside from my love of NYFW, I also get to look forward to one of my best friends birthdays and I get to FINALLY start brainstorming my fall looks (I can’t wait to start buying Fall Jackets to add to my closet)
With all that I’m looking forward to for September (well what’s left of this month lol) I want to know what you guys are planning, doing or even manifesting for the remainder of this month.
Let me know in the reply section below what you guys are looking forward to or if you wish to email me be sure to do so at Takemetotheheights@gmail.com.
Before I close off this blog post, I just wanted to take the time in thanking you all for checking out Takemetotheheights.com. You guys continuously give me the fuel to keep putting out new posts.
Be sure to stay tuned to see what else I have in store.
This is probably the hardest blog post I’ve ever had to share with you all. Coming into September has truly been trying for me.
As of lately, I haven’t been feeling like myself. I feel as though I’m inadequate. Like I’m not enough. Typically when I feel this way I hide.I disappear well from everything and anyone. I find myself questioning my self-worth and if the things I say or do mean anything.
However, as much as I found myself succumbing to those old habits of mine, I knew deep down that I needed to change that for the better.
I no longer wanted to nor felt the need to hide from the world. I wanted to be able to continue to be in a space where I can still share with you all despite what I’ve been going through.
It’s not easy but I’m glad I’m in a space where I can better communicate my feelings without feeling awkward or defeated.
I decided to share these moments with you all for the simple fact that there might be someone or even a group of people who might be experiencing this firsthand. I just wanted to let you know that you’re not alone and if you can, take the time to either write what’s been going on or even reach out to a loved one.
Even taking the time to share my thoughts has been therapeutic for me. It literally feels as though a weight has been lifted off. Trust me, it hasn’t been easy. Even typing out this blog post took a lot for me. The perfectionist in me constantly kept changing and omitting things in this post. But I needed to bare it all and truly be my most vulnerable self with all of you.
Never feel afraid of stripping your layers or tearing down your walls.
If you ever find yourself questioning your value or what you do…STOP.
It’ll cause you to undermine everything you’ve done and plan to do. You are an invaluable asset to not only yourself but to others around you.
Before I end of this blog post, I just wanted to say don’t allow your setbacks or even negative thoughts deter you from creating something beautiful. You’ll be able to look back and be proud of all that you’ve accomplished. You are more than your pain. You are much more than those negative thoughts. You are truly a masterpiece. Never ever forget that.
If you’re looking to reach out or even share how you’ve been, don’t hesitate in shooting me an email at Takemetotheheights@gmail.com.
Happy August to you all. As with any new month, I welcome it with open arms and an open mind. I am ready for all that the month of August has to offer: new opportunities for meeting as well as collaborating with others, setting new goals and intentions. Each new start serves as a reminder that we have the amazing ability to start over, refresh, regroup and ultimately try again.
I hope that everyone’s manifestations along with dreams become a reality. No matter how challenging it may get or even frustrating, always remember tomorrow’s your opportunity to start anew.
I’ve decided to dedicate this month to second chances. I often (more frequent than others) am not the type nor do I ever feel ready in giving people, things or even experiences a second chance. A lot of it is due to my upbringing and my families notion in the idea that once you fuck up that’s it.
Yet, the older I get and more invested I become in my own development and betterment in self-care, I realized I needed to be able to revisit people and or things that have caused me grief or even stress.
I no longer wanted to carry the burden of not wanting to deal with people or said things that inflicted pain. Nor did I believe it was healthy for me.
There was absolutely no growth in me doing that nor was I challenging myself in the ways I needed to.
Being able to revisit my grief gave me the strength as well as power in knowing that I am strong enough to face these issues head-on and that it will ultimately be okay.
I’ll be able to develop a much deeper sense of self-awareness as a result of me taking ownership of the things and or people that caused me grief.
For the remainder of this month as well as moving forward into the next, I challenge you all to revisit anyone or anything that has inflicted pain. Be sure to honor your past feelings or even the feelings you may currently have.
Also, set new goals for the month of August.
What are you hoping to learn? What are you manifesting for this month? How are you going to fulfill your goals? Has last month taught you anything? If so, what?
Be sure to let me know down below what your goals entail for the remainder of the month and how you intend to reach them.
Also, let me know what July has taught you and what you plan on doing with your new found lesson or blessing coming into the month of August.
Before I close out tonight’s blog post I just wanted to take this time in thanking those that continuously come to Takemetotheheights.com.
It truly means alot to me and then some. I create my content in the hopes that someone out there can connect as well as share their personal experiences with me.
I love the idea of knowing that I can share my personal thoughts and experiences with you.
Stay tuned for what I have in store for the remainder of the month of August!!!!
Hey y’all and welcome back to Takemetotheheights.com. Thank you so much for coming back and checking out another blog post.
For starters, I just wanted to take this time in apologizing to you all for not staying afloat with my blog site.
As of recently, I have been trying my hardest to get rid of this cold I have. I am convinced it’s the flu since I’ve been feeling rather sick a little after the Fourth of July. I’ll just continue to load up on vitamin c and ginger for the most part. (Pray for me y’all)
Aside from that, how have y’all been? I’ve missed you all so very much and I promise to deliver just as much content as I was before. I hope everyone has been enjoying this extremely HOT summer we’ve been having. I know my hair hasn’t been lol.
I know I am long overdue for a trim. My hair has been showing me signs lml. I’ll get more into my haircare/hair update in my next hair blog post so please stay tuned for that.
I’ve also been devoting more time to my close friends. I forgot how therapeutic it was for me whenever I got the opportunities to hang out with my friends. A lot of my worries and troubles begin to subside when I dedicate more time to my friends. And yes if you guys are reading this I am shouting all of you out lol. You guys are amazing and mean everything and then some to me. Thank you for always being an ear for me especially in moments of when I needed it the most.
Now in terms of what’s next for Takemetotheheights.com, I have fantastic news to share with you! (Drumroll please….)
I’ll be attending CurlFest in Brooklyn!!!!!!
If you plan on attending please be sure to let me know in the reply section down below. I’d love to meet those who will be attending!
I won’t get into too much detail about last year’s CurlFest (lawd) but just know in a nut I am DEFINITELY looking forward to this years.
I also have more news to share with you all but I’ll save that for another blog post.
All in all, it feels amazing being back with another blog post. Thank you for ALWAYS being patient and thank you for taking the time in reading tonight’s blog post.
I am forever thankful to you all. Stay tuned for what else I have in store for Takemetotheheights.com
Before I close out tonight’s blog post, be sure to leave me your replies and don’t forget to let me know if you’ll be attending CurlFest!
Welcome back to Takemetotheheights.com. Thank you so much for taking the time in checking out today’s blog post!
Before I get started, I just wanted to say how amazing we all are. For those that are taking that leap of faith in starting his or her own business, I commend you. You are truly brave and passionate about your brand and I wish you longevity as well as prosperity.
Moving forward into today’s post, I have something very special to share with you all. In the spirit of entrepreneurship/business, I recently got the opportunity to interview a creative, thoughtful just overall light being.
Sky Britnei is the epitome of what every budding business person should be: She exemplifies optimism for not only herself but to her brand as well, Sky encompasses what passion and hard work look like while building her business and she is consistent and considerate of the needs of her consumers.
Sky’s careful attention to detail is also a quality up and coming entrepreneurs, as well as business owners, should possess.
Without further delay, here is my interview with Sky Britnei:
First, I just want to take this time in thanking you for doing this interview. I think it’s super crucial to educate ourselves as well as others more about small black-owned businesses. Let’s continue to change the narrative by introducing Sky Britnei.
Can you give us, the readers here at Takemetotheheights.com a brief overview of who you are?
In the simplest terms, I am art. A creative. A person of passion. Everything I create is by way of passion and inspired by art.
What caused you to start your all-natural line?
I created my natural body butter line during a pivotal moment in my spiritual journey. At the time, I felt confident in my jewelry line and knew I wanted to expand although I wasn’t sure in what way. I started diving deeper into the world of meditation, yoga, and holistic wellness and really began to fall in love with it. As I researched more, my passion for the wellness world grew and I decided that I would use my new found passion to further expand my business.
What are you hoping consumers gain from your line?
More than anything, I want my customers to know and truly feel the hard work, dedication, energy, and love that I pour into all of my products.
What’s your favorite product(s) or which would you recommend to the readers?
My favorite body butter is Majesty. I use sweet orange and vanilla essential oils to fragrant this butter and it smells sooo good (all of them do, lol). To be honest though, what I would recommend depends on your skin type. This is also why I have the benefits of each butter/oil listed on my website and encourage my customers to do further research on what works for their skin. I have oily/combination skin thus Majesty works wonders.
What are you manifesting for your line in the years to come?
Success, stability, productivity, happiness, growth, and connection with other black-owned businesses!
How can people find you or purchase your products?
(Potential) Customers can visit my website, www.skybritnei.com. They can also follow me on Instagram @DeLaJipi which has direct links to my products. I have also begun doing pop up shops and other events, so that information will also be listed on my Instagram page.
Any advice for up and coming black-owned business owners? If so, what gems would you drop to them?
Okay, so I have a few that I have learned throughout my journey.
There will be difficult times but, consistency is truly key. No matter how trying times may be, don’t give up on your dreams. Make those dreams into goals and think about how to execute those goals. No matter how many people you see succeeding via shortcuts, never forget that hard work and passion about your craft breeds success. And last but definitely not least, it is okay to take care of and put yourself first. Always.
Once again, thank you for taking time out of your schedule in doing this interview for Takemetotheheights.com. If you haven’t done so already, be sure to purchase Sky Britnei’s products at www.skybritnei.com.
Also, be sure to follow Sky Britnei on Instagram @DeLaJipi.
You’ll find info on pop-ups along with other events and of course a link to her website for her amazing products.
I’ve already purchased my body butters. What are you waiting for?!
I’m super overdue, but I’ve decided to spend those first weeks of June truly enjoying the weather and being surrounded by my loved ones.
Let’s cut right to the chase. I am feeling overjoyed for two reasons:
The school year is almost done and for those of you who are in the educational field know that feeling all too well: DRAINED and EXCITED for summer to be here!
I am happy to announce my new blogging services and share it with you all.
With that being said, all month long I will be offering my blogging services to those who are looking for a blogger to review/cover their event or product.
Be sure to click the contact tab, send an email and indicate what service(s) you want in the subject of your message.
Aside from that, I have welcomed this month with open arms and an open mind. I am ready for all the amazing opportunities to come for the month of June.
Last month has taught me the significance in me strengthening/redefining my work revolving self-care/healing. With the last week of school tomorrow, I’ve taken a step back from social media for a bit and just allowed myself to recharge coming into a new month. I’ve also devoted time in collaborating more with other people. Doing so has allowed me to harness my ability in remaining approachable.
Moving forward, I’ve decided to dedicate this month in focusing on the power of connecting with others. We often times get so wrapped up in our own ideas or even transfixed on doing things that we see so fit.
Allowing myself opportunities in sharing my light and vibrations with others will in turn cause for greater relationships with peers as well as enable me to honor a space in which I can wholeheartedly speak to others revolving the scope of creativity, business and the like.
So with that being said, if you have a networking opportunity in NYC for bloggers, influencers and/or small business owners, please be sure to share your info and shoot an email by clicking the contact tab.
Before I end of this blog post, please be sure to share your thoughts and comments about this post. Also, be sure to follow Takemetotheheights on all social media platforms (Instagram and Facebook) and as always, stay tuned for my next blog post.
Let’s cut right to the chase. Who here is excited…no thrilled that it’s finally Spring?
I know I most definitely am! After dealing with Winter for the past 30 some odd years now (we’ve had quite the Winter this year lol) we were granted the opportunity to welcome May with warmer temps💃🏾
With that awesome weather we had and us FINALLY welcoming in Spring…
I welcome May with open arms, an open mind and an open heart.
I decided to take this time to reflect on all that I’ve set up in terms of my goals and where my mind state is going forward.
I’ve realized how much more ambitious I’ve become and more inspired to create and tap into my creative juices more often.
I’ve also realized how much time I’ve devoted to learning and understanding myself better. I’m fortunate to be in a place in my life where I don’t need to rely on the happiness of others in order to feel happy myself.
Aside from that, my energy is a true reflection of how much my character has developed and changed over time. I can easily sense when things just don’t seem to be worthwhile, so in turn, I’ll be able to move more swiftly.
As a result, I no longer wanted to be nor felt the need to be in a space where things or the like don’t benefit me.
All in all, my journey has been more at the forefront and I look forward to seeing what else will come my way.
Let me know in your replies down below what you’re looking forward to for the month of May💛
Heyyyy and welcome back to Takemetotheheights.com!
It feels so good to say that to you all after all that time has passed. Besides me needing time to recharge myself, I went back and changed up the aesthetics of Takemetotheheights.com!!!!!
I decided to change my website because I felt as if I kept holding myself back. I told myself going forward into 2018, I will try my hardest to continuously give you all not only an aesthetically pleasing website but one that catered to the needs of others. When I started Takemetotheheights.com 2-3 years ago, I went in with the idea of solely basing it for my love towards fashion as well as including a few personal things to me that I felt held so much value.
Granted my older blog posts are my babies and mean the world to me, I knew that I also needed to be able to provide you all with more meaningful content that can be used in our day to day lives.
So without further ado, I present the OFFICIAL RELAUNCH of TAKEMETOTHEHEIGHTS.COM!!!!!
You’ll notice that I’ve included a toolbar(desktop view/drop-down menu in mobile view) with just a few things that I wanted to talk about more often with you all.
Each section in the toolbar includes Mantras, Self-Care, Fashion Files, Hair, Skin and FINALLY, a Contact section where you can reach me if you’re looking to work along with me or want to be featured here on Takemetotheheights.com.
I’ve devoted so much time and more love into this relaunch!
I am beyond thrilled to begin this new chapter with you all.
Before I close off today’s blog post, please be sure to tell me your thoughts on my relaunch of Takemetotheheights.com. Which section of the toolbar are you looking forward to reading posts about?
Thank you for rocking with Takemetotheheights.com! It means so much to me that you all have stayed and continue to show your support. It never goes unnoticed!
Stay tuned for more posts!
With an immense amount of love and as always peace,
¡Hola to all the fashion lovers and enthusiasts out there!
Welcome back to takemetotheheights.com!!!!
Let me just say how thrilled I am to be bringing you all another blog post. Towards the end of January, I was dealing with so much. Straight stress overload😩
I’m just thankful I can keep giving you all blog posts.
Other than that, I must also HUMBLY AND PROUDLY say Happy Black History Month!
With all that’s occurring for Black Excellence in Fashion, I can’t wait to share with you what I have in store!!!
Well, as mentioned in today’s blog post title, First NYFW featuring: Jeanette Limas, I got the opportunity to attend my very FIRST New York Fashion Week show and I’m still on cloud nine.
NYFW has always been on my bucket list since I was a little girl and having the opportunity to attend a show made me feel unstoppable. The world is truly my oyster and I’m up for all the grabbing.
Upon arriving at El Barrio’s Artspace PS 109 in NYC, I was enchanted by the massive walkway that led to the building.
Lights lined the concrete ground as I walked into the crowded space. The entryway of the runway had tall white walls that was placed in front of a massive wall.
In huge black lettering, Jeanette Lima’s name proudly stood. The energy in the room was filled with excitement and pride for Lima’s line.
Having started in 2015, Jeanette Limas is no amateur when it came time to showcase her minimal yet show stopping collection in NYC.
Jeanette Limas is no stranger to New York Fashion Week. Having already presented four collections in New York City, Thursday’s show highlighted Lima’s fifth collection.
Lima’s presentation proved to be a true testament of just how successful she has become in this field of fashion design.
Guests sat in white chairs as we were welcomed by a singer dressed in a signature Jeanette Lima long sleeved red dress. The garment moved beautifully as the singer glided around the wooden floor. Once the artist took her place, it was showtime.
The singer continued to croon into the microphone as models walked gracefully down the runway.
Below, you’ll find just a few of my favorite pieces from Lima’s collection.
Despite the frigid temps that Thursday night, I was grateful I came out to partake in Lima’s spectacular collection.
Thank you Jeanette Limas for continuously breaking down racial barriers in Fashion by showing others that we are truly magical. Plátano Power wins again.
For those that want to view Lima’s designs, be sure to check out her website here: Jeanette Limas.
Welcome back to another blog post brought to you by the lovely folks here at takemetotheheights.com.
Here I am during my lunch break 😂 bringing you a blog post unlike any other post I’ve given to guys in the past. It presents a rather crucial theme that I recently found I had difficulty facing as an adult.
It was brought to my attention that we have this tendency of allowing our very own fears and doubts about pursuing our goals to ultimately get the best of us and in turn shies us away from accomplishing well anything.
Why is it that if it is something that we are truly passionate about, we not only deal with nay sayers, individuals who don’t understand our crafts and talents but also our own negative and hurtful thoughts about ourselves?
While having that conversation, I couldn’t help but to think about how often I allowed my excuses and doubts to get the best of me. Now before anyone says or thinks anything, just because I have this space to share my posts with you all, doesn’t necessarily mean I always felt this comfortable in sharing. It took some time for me to get over said doubts and fears.
However, I got stopped in my tracks when I began to plan out for the remainder of the month. I was asked why not do what I have in mind two weeks from now instead of prolonging it all the way into February. All I thought was, this individual just might be on to something.
Here I was making those useless excuses and in turn allowing those thoughts to manifest into presumptions and doubts about not being able to plan out accordingly for reasons unknown.
It was also brought to my attention and was then asked why I chose to make excuses instead of taking that leap of faith and just ultimately “go hard” for myself for a change. Again, I truthfully couldn’t really say anything but agree.
I don’t know if any of you are at the point of just growing frustrated about not fulfilling your goals because of our lame excuses. But let’s all end that now.
It’s 2018 and you still have those opportunities you thought you couldn’t ever fulfill. As long as you start and invest the time, there’s no way nothing or no one can stop you from accomplishing your dreams and tap into your passions.
Always remember to hold your crown 👑 and keep moving forward.
Before I continue further, I just wanted to thank that person for making me realize how toxic our excuses can become and in turn doesn’t allow us to excel and transcend into our highest forms. Thank you 💛💛
Overall, regardless of how cold and or how tired we might get, or what others might say or do or even our own hurtful thoughts and criticisms about ourselves, let’s challenge ourselves.
Let’s walk with the knowledge and power in knowing that we can accomplish just about anything. As long as we invest the time and commitment, we can push forward against all odds and reach for the heights. 🙌🏾🙌🏾
If you’ve reached the end, let me just say thank you for taking the time in reading today’s post. Be sure to leave me comments and stay tuned for what else I’ll have in store. 💃🏾💛💛💛
Happy New Year to all you fashionistas and fellow fashion enthusiasts.
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Tonight’s blog post is just a quick recap of New Years and………
This past Sunday, Takemetotheheights.com officially turned two years old!🎉🎉
Back to when I started this blog site, I remember feeling nervous and anxious. I never expected for this site to turn two years old as a result of my own personal fears and doubts.
I’m just grateful that I was able to continue to provide you all with meaningful content throughout these couple of years no matter what might have tried to deter me.
I have so many hopes and plans for takemetotheights and by remaining positive and resilient, I know that there is essentially no limit for this site. Help me wish Takemeotheheights.coma Happy Birthday by commenting Happy B’day or just by simply placing a yellow heart.
I’ve managed to continue so far with this site with the help of you all. I check in to see who views this site and who leaves a comment here and there and that is all truthfully my fuel to continue sharing my passion with you. It truly means a lot to me and then some and I couldn’t be any more happier about that. Thank you and a million more times thank you.
Aside from that, to ring in 2018, I decided to keep it really simple and chose to spend that time with my family and a close friend/sister. Aside from the 9 degree weather (yup, it was bone chilling cold out)
I decided to spend that time with them simply because as I get older, I began to realize that time is such a precious gem and we’re not always fortunate in having that with our families and close friends. As soon as that ball dropped, I felt this sense of awakening pouring out of me. I knew at that very moment that once I declared 2018 as my very own, I instantly began to feel reassured and knew that with Him all things can be possible with my perseverance and dedication. I decided to take on more risks and to stay positive at all times no matter the circumstances.
Growth is also an essential key factor coming into the New Year for me. By allowing myself to let go of things that I can’t control, I knew this was me coming into my very own as an adult.
Learning how to and continuously say no when deemed necessary was also crucial for me.
Harnessing this power not only makes me feel powerful but it also calls for me to set more boundaries and limitations. I can’t allow for me to stretch myself thin. It isn’t healthy for me nor would I be happy.
Last but definitely not least, continuing to practice self-care helps to set a new and healthier lifestyle for me. In turn, I’ll be able to share my practice with others and maintain my peace of mind.
In all, I pray that this New Year brings you all nothing but more blessings, opportunities for growth and being patient with yourself. As always, be sure to leave me your comments as I always look forward to reading them and don’t forget to leave me a Happy B’day for takemetoheights.com along with a yellow heart.
Stay tuned for what else I have in store for the upcoming months.
2018 is almost upon us and it’s that lovely time where self-reflection is vital as we approach closer towards the New Year.
I’ve decided to take tonight’s blog post to share just a few things that have been on my mind. In the past, I remember how fearful I was in expressing myself through my writing.
Now that I’ve created a space for myself, I’ve decided to dedicate this post to just share with you all what’s been on my heart.
Hopefully someone can reap the benefits of what will be said.
So here I am reflecting back on 2017 and as much as I didn’t want to have the typical post of what I’m leaving behind this year going forward, I found it crucial to finally have the courage to express myself through my words for a change.
I have to ensure that I put me 1st at all times. I have the habit of forgetting that and as I get older, I found that when I didn’t, my inner peace was disturbed and I would feel off balance.
I no longer want nor need to feel the pressures of wanting to feel accepted. I have a plethora of family and close friends who are there. That’s all that should matter.
It’s the libra in me and just the way I’ve been raised to crave relationships.
Yet, if my spirit no longer resonates with a person, please do not take it personally.
I’m on a journey to finally figure me out for a change and I shouldn’t be afraid to say that.
I need to continue to explore other options of self care and share it with my family. We get so caught up with the daily stresses that we forget to check in.
Time is VERY CRUCIAL to me so please respect that.
Any and every goal that I have mentioned to people will happen with my hard work and through the grace of God.
If and when I say no or decline an invitation, again don’t take it personally.
I just prefer my moments of peace and quiet and I have the right to say no.
In turn, this will allow me the opportunity to recharge.
I have the habit of being “the mom” to my close friends/family and granted I have that habit, it’s not my job to play parent.
And lastly, I no longer feel the need to constantly explain myself to people nor do I need to. (Unless you and I share the same last name then cool no problem lol)
So with that being said, I am looking forward to all the great things to come for 2018. I will always remain hopeful but most importantly realistic about what needs to be done for me.
2017 it’s been real but I love how 2018 is already looking 💛💛💛
If you made it this far in the post, I thank you 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
It hasn’t been the easiest road but with my resilience and support system I’ll get there no matter what.
For those of you who have continuously been rocking with takemetotheheights.com I appreciate you all.
Never shy from using glitter, lashes and blush, J is the epitome of what every makeup artist should remain…innovative as well as passionate about this industry.
J’s drive and persistence in this business is shown throughout her growing Instagram page. Her services are not only reasonable but is also something people look forward to based upon her reviews from her above mentioned Facebook makeup page.
Receiving ratings that are five stars across the board, you can instantly see why this makeup artist can easily build her clientele.
Check out a few of her looks down below and you’ll see how she beautifully blends products in and plays in colors.
Full-time mom and makeup slayer, Tatiana’s approach to creating makeup looks is what I like to call “sophisticated glam.” Having already worked with some well noted Housewives, as well as various known brands such as Josie Maran, Tatiana is truly the archetype makeup artist you want to work with.
Her level of skill as well as knowledge with different makeup brands and products that can truly amplify your overall glow, will definitely have you wishing your makeup can stay on FOREVER.
Tatiana’s social media is just a small indication of the level of artistry she possesses. Aside from her amazing skill set in this industry, she is truly a humble and well rounded person. Her level of professionalism is just a small piece of just how well she carries herself and represents her brand.
Be sure to scroll on down to see some of Tatiana’s makeup looks on clients : )
Up next but certainly not last, we have Beatface by Ashley. A fellow SFC alum, dance teacher and budding freelance makeup artist, Ashley has successfully managed to teach herself the artistry of creating beautiful looks. Pictured down below is Ms. Ashley herself beat to the gawds.
I would’ve said Happy Friday to all you marvelous, magnificent, majestic….lol you get the idea, fashionistas and fashion lovers. BUT…… I had to take care of a few things first but it’s all good on my end. (Thank God) So instead I’ll just say Happy Saturday lml.
I FINALLY got the opportunity to check out the Volez, Voguez, Voyagez Louis Vuitton Exhibition at the American Stock Exchange. All I have to say is WOW!!!!! If you haven’t taken the time to check out the exhibition, PLEASE make sure you do so sooner rather than later.
Even if you’re not a fashion lover like myself, you won’t be disappointed about going. The legacy alone of this treasured designer will suffice.
The exhibition was by far well thought out and innovative.
Dating back from 1854, the exhibition chronicles Louis Vuitton’s designs through travel, sailing and aviation. Curator, Olivier Saillard and Artistic Director and Set Designer Robert Carsen eloquently took the Louis Vuitton brand and showcased it in a fashion timeline. Each room was designed to tailor around the specific themes Saillard and Caresen had in mind.
Just note that the entire main level of the exhibition was designed to look and feel as if you are in an actual Louis Vuitton trunk. (How dope is that?!!!)
Below you’ll find the map and just take heed of the amount of rooms and work that took place in order to create this extraordinary exhibition.
Further along this post, I’ve chosen just a few of the hundreds of photos that were taken at the exhibition. Each of these photographs can truly speak for themselves. So without further ado, feel free to check them out for yourself🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
The Original tools to design the infamous Louis Vuitton Trunks
The infamous Louis Vuitton Trunk
Modern Louis Vuitton Trunk
2000’s and beyond of Louis Vuitton Speedy Handbags
Can’t forget about Men’s Fashion
Marc Jacobs Collaboration with Louis Vuitton
My FAVORITE…..VINTAGE LOUIS VUITTON
The following garments down below were worn by some of your fave celebs at different red carpets.
These photos alone don’t do the exhibition justice. You have until January 7th, 2018 to check out this splendor.
Before I close out this post, I just wanted to thank those that continue to rock with Takemetotheheights as we approach further into the New Year. It truly means a lot to me to see who has been visiting and leaving me comments.
Until next time, and as always with peace and love,
Hello all fashion lovers but this time around, I’d like to also welcome my music enthusiasts as well.
This week’s blog post will explore my night at the Apollo Music Cafe to watch none other than Tyrik Ballard.
Please be sure to continue reading as I introduce to you all, my avid readers, to someone who is not only humble but truly gifted in what he does.
Mr. Ballard exemplifies the ideal R&B male artist this music industry needed for the upcoming years ahead. He exudes that smooth and velvety feel music was lacking these days.
While watching Tyrik perform at the Apollo Music Cafe (and just know that this wasn’t my first time watching him perform) it’s evident that Mr. Ballard is Mr. R&B. Period. (Yes I said it lol) His presence alone truly captivated the attention of the audience. Upon walking down the aisle of the cafe, all eyes along with numerous screams and whoops from devoted fans like myself were heard throughout the dimly lit room.
Mr. Ballard came out dressed in beige Chelsea boots, black coated jeans, a black turtle neck all paired with a camel over coat, wayfarers and a gold cuban link necklace. The pieces alone further gravitated my attention to him as he oozed with sleek perfection.
The lights got low as soon as he hit that stage. The only light that was clear to see was Tyrik’s. He let go of all of his inhibitions and showed the audience not only how meaningful his songs are but also what his artistry truly means to him.
It was an amazing sight to see and being given the opportunity to witness that night at the Apollo Music Cafe was indeed a blessing in disguise for me. Unlike other performances, that night was indeed monumental for Mr. Ballard’s musical career. Not only was he performing in his hometown of Harlem, his name was also shown on the giant marquee the Apollo is famous for. Mr. Ballard’s poster was spread throughout the Apollo truly indicating the level of artistry this young man possesses.
One of the songs Tyrik sang that night entitled, “Almost There” truly resonated with me. The line in particular, “I’m taking control of my life” was a reminder for me that regardless of what has happened in the past, I determine my future and it’s up to me to harness that power.
I was not only thrilled for him about all of these extraordinary things happening but to also witness the excitement in the faces of his loved ones was overwhelming for me. It was clear to see that Tyrik has a strong and supportive family unit and the love in that room permeated throughout the air.
Here’s some photos I took of Mr. Ballard with his permission (and I totally had to take a pic with the star himself lol)
Before I close out this post, I just want to take the time to thank Tyrik Ballard for sharing his gift with the world. I can’t wait to see what else is in store for him and I look forward to his next performance.
For all of you who want to know where you can find Tyrik’s music, his EP, “Almost There” is available on Apple Music, Spotify, Tidal, Amazon…basically any and every music outlet out there. Definitely give him your ear. You won’t be disappointed.